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    Grantham, Thomas Author Profile
    Author Grantham, Thomas
    Denomination Nonconformist
    A Marriage Sermon Text Profile
    Genre Sermon
    Date 1641
    Full Title A Marriage Sermon. A sermon called A Wife mistaken, or a Wife and no Wife: or Leah in stead of Rachel; A Sermon accused for Railing against Women; for maintaining Polygamie, many Wives, for calling Iacob a Hocus-Pocus. A Sermon laught at more than a Play by the Ignorant for many such mistakes: Justified by the Wife. Wisedome is Iustified of her Children. By Tho. Grantham M. Art. Curate of High Barnes neer London, Invenies aliquem
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    Gen. 29. verse. 25. And it came to passe that in the morning behold it was Leah. And he said unto Laban, What is this thou hast done unto me? did not I serve with thee for Rachel? wherefore then hast thou beguiled mee?

    In the text you may observe a Conjunction
    and a division: a Conjunction, here are two
    together that should be asunder, Iacob and
    Leah. And in the morning behold it was Leah.
    A division, heere are two asunder that should
    be together, Iacob and Rachel: and first of the
    Conjunction as fittest for this season, and opportunity;
    you have seene the quality of this conjunction, it was an ill
    Conjunction, a great deale of deceit in it, and where is there
    a Conjunction, a Marriage, but there is deceit in it, and
    least this deceit should cause a separation, the Church
    bindeth them together before God and man, for better for
    worse, for richer for poorer. And unlesse this course were
    taken, how soone would there be a partition, their qualities
    being almost as different as heaven and hell, as the good
    Angels and the bad. Nabal and Abigail, Nabal a fool and
    churle, and of so base a disposition, such a man of Belial,
    that his own servants said a man could not tell how to speak

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    to him: and she a kinde complementall woman, she fell at
    Davids feet, and offered to wash the feet of his servants. David
    and Michal, Michal a scoffing woman, deriding David
    for dancing before the Arke, and he a man after Gods own
    heart; Socrates with Xantippe, she is like a Quotidian Ague,
    or at the best she is like Sauls evill spirit that comes too
    often upon him. Moses and Zipporah, she a terrible firie
    woman, Thou art a bloudy husband to me, saith she, and Moses
    the meekest man above all the men of the earth. The learned
    distinguish a fourfold deceit in Marriage, the first is
    error personæ, when Leah is given in stead of Rachel, one
    party for another, as to Iacob, and this mistake doth hinder
    and nullifie Mariage: for in Mariage there is a mutuall love
    and consent One to another, but this is not where Leah is
    given in stead of Rachel, and therefore no Mariage. But will
    some say, is it possible that Iacob who was so subtill a man
    should be so deceived, he was noted for a supplanter by
    his Brother Esau; Is he not rightly called Iacob, for he hath
    supplanted me these two times of my birthright and blessing.
    He was so grave, so arch a supplanter, that he could
    deceive his father although his voyce betraied him, and although
    his father told him it was the voyce of Iacob, yet he
    pressed him to blesse him in stead of his brother Esau. We
    say that man is an excellent Hocus-Pocus, excellent in legerdemaine,
    and slight of hand that can deceive one that looks
    upon him. But he that can deceive the hearing, and the
    feeling, he is far more excellent: my sight may be deceived
    for I may take that which is Pictured to be lively and
    real, but my hearing, my feeling cannot be so easily deceiv'd.
    Thomas would not beleeve his seeing, his hearing, but when
    he came to feeling to lay his hand in our Saviours side, then
    he cried out, My Lord and my God. And now I suppose you
    are ready to ask, how this Subtil man was deceived? The deceit
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    was thus, solem olim sponsa obvelata facie traduci ad torum
    mortalem pudoris causa.
    In those dayes the Brides came veiled
    and Masked to their Marriage Beds, for modesty sake, and
    it was a signe of Modesty to be silent. And thus much for the
    first deceit, which is error personæ, a mistake of the person,
    as this text represents to you. There is another deceit, which
    is error qualitatis, when a man takes as he thinkes he hath,
    one thrifty honest, faire, and she proves a painted whorish,
    liquorish slut. And this deceit is generall, for many women
    shew like the Egyptian Temples, very beautifull without
    and built, and adorned with precious stones, saith, Lucian,
    but if you seek what god they worship within, you shall
    finde him to be a Cat, or a Goat, or an Ape, or some such
    ridiculous ill favoured creature: so, many women, although
    they be faire and beautifull without, are full of many vanities,
    fickle, unconstant, lascivious affections: many a man
    thinks he hath a saint, when he hath a Devill, a faire woman,
    when she is a painted plaistered faced Iesabel; I will
    not speak of these painted tombes and sepulchres, beautifull
    without, but loathsome within, these Apples of Sodom,
    that seeme faire to the sight but at the least touch they fall
    to dust: so the least approaching discovers the corruption
    of these creatures, so great is their corruption it corrupts
    the sweetest perfumes, and makes them loathsome as themselves:
    but I will not rake any longer in this unsavory dunghill.
    There are two other errours, or deceits in Marriage, as
    error Conditionis, and error fortunæ: but I let them passe, for
    feare I should run into the errour of being tedious to this
    assembly. I come now to the division, or separation; there is
    discovery of an ill Conjunction, therefore I will cast my
    meditations a little upon this appearance, or discovery of
    this Conjunction, In the morning behold it was Leah. There
    is many a man sleeps with Leah and thinks it is Rachel, there
    is many a man so blinded in his love & affection that he is as
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    much or more mistaken in the qualities of his wife then
    Iacob was in the person of Leah: many a man thinks he hath
    a wife that loves him, when she cares not for him, and hee
    may think that she is sighing and sorrowing in his absence,
    when she is Revelling and Dancing. You may read Pro.
    7.18. there's a woman speaks to a man in her husbands absence
    to take his fill of love with her: he may be thinks, she
    is weeping in his absence, when she is tumbling in her
    perfumed bed, as you may read there, verse 17. I have perfumed
    my bed with Myrrhe, Aloes and Cynamon; I have decked
    it with coverings of tapestry, and fine linnen of Egypt
    : no
    question this woman embraces her husband when he comes
    home, and he discovers nothing: for the way of an whorish
    woman, as Solomon saith is like the flight of a Bird in the
    aire, like the passage of a ship upon the sea, like a serpent creeping
    into a rocke
    : no signe of the birds flying, of the serpents
    creeping, of the ships passage.
    Look upon Ioseph's Mistresse, she hath his coat to shew
    for honesty, Ecce signum, Behold the coat of this Hebrew: did
    Sampson thinke those hands would have clipped his lockes,
    that had so often embraced his body? Some rash men do
    maintain, that the reason why men thinke there are so many
    good women, is, because they are so blinde and ignorant
    themselves; if they had but the eyes of the Wise, to see with
    Solomons eyes, may be they would say, There was not one
    good of a thousand, and he had told them one by one. And
    how does Solomon define a good woman? just as the Philosopher
    does, Vacuum ex supposito quod detur; if there be a Vacuum, it is Locus non repletus corpore; if there be, or shall
    ever be such a thing in the world as a good woman, then she
    is this and that, she is like a merchants Ship that bringeth
    her food from far: and what of greater value ! she is like to
    precious jewels, she is like to them, but there is none like
    to her, none of equal value with her. Solomon saith, She is a
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    crowne to her husband, she is the glory of her husband, saith
    Saint Paul, the very skarlet she cloathes her servants in does
    shew her honourable, God himselfe cals her an helper, and
    such a helper she is, that man could not have been capable
    of that blessing, Increase and multiply, without her, then it
    was The Seed of the woman that brake the Serpents head: she
    was Deipora, she brought forth a God, and here I will be
    bold to say out of the due honour to that Sexe, that there
    have been women have deserved these praises of Solomon:
    What was that Ester? that Cherubin of the Church under
    whose wings it was safe: the Papists call the Virgin Mary,
    Regina Cli, Queen of Heaven, and they pray to her to
    command our Saviour, Mater impera Filio, Mother command
    thy Son; She hath more Churches dedicated to her
    than our Saviour, than all the Trinity, although she paid
    her Fine in milke, but He in blood, as a great Divine
    saith. How happy hath this Kingdom been under a Queen,
    there are many eyes now living that have seen it, and not a
    man but knowes it; I need not instance in particulars the
    elect Lady and her sister, to whom Saint Iohn writ, Priscilla
    able to informe a learned man Apollos in the Scripture:
    these women were highly honoured by that Apostle called
    from Heaven, Greete Priscilla and Aquila Rom. 16.3. Aquila
    and Priscilla salute you.
    1. Cor. 16.19. salute Priscilla and Aquila
    2. Tim.4.19. Priscilla went with him into Syria Act. 18.18.
    and thus much for the discovery, how long may a man sleep
    before he knowes with whom, or what she is he sleeps withall,
    before he knows whether it be Leah or Rachel. I am
    come now to the division or separation, and you see it is
    a high and great division, Iacob begins to word it, to fall to
    termes with Laban who was his Master What is this thou
    hast done unto me; did not I serve with thee for Rachel?
    wherefore then hast thou beguiled me? And indeed the inconveniences

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    were very many that befell Iacob by this wicked
    act of Laban: first of all he made his daughter a whore,
    and a whore is odious to the children of God, she was either
    to be burnt, or to be stoned. Then the wrong done to Rachel,
    being deceived of her expectation, was enough to make her
    weepe her selfe blear ey'd like Leah, then he brought an inconvenience
    upon Iacob, having more wives then one, some
    say it was a sin, some hold it a great Inconvenience to have
    one, therefore much more to have two.
    The married man is intangled like a fish in a net; he
    comes merrily in, but he is mightily perplext when he cannot
    get out: then this action of Laban was enough to set the
    sisters at variance, and what joy could Iacob have when his
    wives were devided, it was enough to devide his heart: then
    the desire of rule, and jealousies, and distrusts that one hath
    of the other; then the charges to maintaine two, whereas
    Iacob if he had had but one, he would never have sought
    further: God made but one for Adam, and Lamech was the
    first that had two Wives, and he had no more then two, and
    he was of the posterity of Cain, and condemned by the fathers:
    and from Adam to Abraham, none of the posterity
    of Seth had more then one wife that we read of they
    two shall be one flesh, and how can that be if a man have
    many wives. God made onely male and female, and he took
    but one rib, and made of one rib, One Woman, not many.
    I will not say, it was a sinne to have many wives, for I finde
    it in the Law, Deut. 21. 15. If a man have two wives, one
    that he loveth, and another that he hateth
    and there the Law
    speakes of both their sons as legitimate, Deut. 17.17. the
    Law does forbid the King to have many wives which may
    draw away his minde, and Saint Augustine upon that
    place saith, permissum & Regi habere plures uxores non
    plurimas
    , he may have more then one or two, but not many,
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    and Iehoiada that was a most holy Priest, took two wives,
    for King Ioash, 2.Chron. 24.3. but me thinks I hear some
    say, Laban is unjustly condemned for dealing so strictly with
    Iacob: was it not a great kindnesse in Laban to take Iacob, Iacob
    that had cosined his Father, his Brother, and to trust him
    with his flock? And then it was a kindnesse that he gave him
    his daughter, and for ought I know the better of the two, the
    fairest is not alwaies the best, Beautifull Rachel sold Iacob
    for Mandrakes, whereas blear eyed Leah bought him and
    went out to meet him, Gen. 30.16. Tender eyed Leah will
    be weeping at my misfortunes, when beautifull Rachel will
    be laughing with another: Abraham went in danger with
    beautiful Sarah, but Iacob liveth secure with tender eyed
    Leah, Rachel stole her fathers gods, and could see her Father
    and husband quarrel the while, when Leah was continually
    weeping, Rachel will be impatient if she have not what she
    desires, give me Children or else I dye: and what is beauty
    with such disquietnesse, but like a faire house haunted with
    sprites, or a bed of violets with a serpent. But look upon
    Leah she is more moderate, tender eyed, she will be weeping
    in stead of scoulding, Rachel will be subject to be wandering
    like Dina, Leah is tender eyed, and the winde will
    hurt her, veniunt spectantur ut Ipse
    , they delight to be looked
    upon, what are these many fancies in their dressings but so
    many signes to invite a man to Inne there if he please,
    whereas the Passenger else had gone on his way, what does
    the fowler whistle for but to catch the Bird, and such is the
    end of their enchantments. Thus you see the danger of
    beauty, there is more danger in it then in the most unruly
    Elements, the fire hath no power of a man if he do not touch
    it; nor the water; but if a man look but upon beauty, it will
    endanger him, and it is kept with a great deale of danger and
    care, as the Apples of the Hesperides with a watchfull Dragon.

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    But will some say, why doe you maintaine bleare eyed
    Leah against beautifull Rachel, Leahs fault was great in lying
    with Iacob. To this I answer, fornication was held no sin
    amongst the Gentiles, and the Church of Rome holds, fornicationem
    non vagam
    , that if a man keep constantly to one
    woman it is no sinne: and heer let no man be harsh against
    Leah, for she is tender eyed, and can weep teares enough to
    wash away her sin, tears enough to wash our Saviours feet,
    alas, be not harsh against her, she is blear eyed already & too
    much weeping will make her blinde, what if Leah have a
    blemish in the eye of her body, yet her understanding, the eye
    of her soule may be cleare, and beautifull, and if men consider
    rightly, the greatest deformity and blemish in a woman
    is, to be bleare eyed in her understanding, to mistake a
    mans actions, not to see them clearly, if her husband be sociable,
    then he is given to drunkennes, if silent, then he hath no
    discourse in him, if merry, not that gravity that becomes
    him, if he put not himselfe upon hard adventures to raise
    his fortunes, she is disquieted, and if he doe, and be foyled,
    then she contemnes him; give me the eye of the understanding,
    let the other eye be as cleare as Christal, if this be
    blemisht there is no joy. For ought I know, this Laban, this
    Idolater, shall rise up against many Christians: how usuall is
    it, for many a man to make faire promises, to promise a man
    Rachel, he shall have this and that, and any thing his heart
    can desire if he will serve them, but when a man hath done
    all he can, they will put Leah upon him, some bleare eyed
    unhandsome thing, upon which so soon as a man can but
    look, he shall finde it to be Leah, it's plaine enough to bee
    seen, behold it was Leah, it is a hard thing for a man to get
    a Rachel of his Master, to get any thing that hath any delight
    or pleasure in it, great men will not part with their Rachels.
    And still I say, this Laban had more honesty and
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    goodnes then many a Christian, for although he had done
    Iacob a little wrong, yet he had so much mildnes, and Gentlenes,
    and Gentility, as he did suffer Iacob to speak to him
    and to tell him of it, why hast thou beguiled me thus. Now
    there are rich men, if they have done a man a displeasure,
    will not be told of it. Nay if a poore man trust a rich man
    with money, if he be not disposed to give it, or is unwilling,
    will be angry if the poore man ask it, and doe him all the
    mischiefe that may be, and what is this but like theeves that
    doe not onely rob a man, but binde a man too, and gag him
    that he shall not speak, or like Rogues that murther a man
    because they shall not betray them; God send me to deale
    with Laban, with an Idolater, I shall finde a man that I dare
    speak to, I shall find a mate that will give me Leah, that will
    give me something and cosin me of all.
    God complained of his vinyard, that when he had taken
    a great deal of pains with it, it brought forth wilde grapes,
    ecce Labruscus, behold wilde grapes plaine enough to be seen.
    And heer if I should shew to the world with an Ecce, the
    wilde grapes, the Basest actions of men, I make no question
    but men would passe the same judgement that David did
    upon the rich man that tooke the poor mans Lambe. And
    heer let every man be exhorted not to deceive his servant
    or his kinsman or his friend, Iacob for deceiving his brother
    & his Father, was paid in his own Coyn, & enjoyed not the
    blessing twenty yeers after: Laban deceived him in his wife,
    Laban for deceiving Iacob, was deceived by Iacob, with the
    rods he laid. Rachel stole Labans gods for deceiving her of
    her husband at first. Iacob deceived his Father with Goats
    skins, and he himselfe was deceived with the blood of a
    Goat. David cut off the lap of Sauls coat, and his clothes
    would not keep him warme in his old age. Sampsons eye
    lusted after a Philistine, and Sampsons eye was put out, Ieroboams
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    hand reached to the Prophet, and that hand withered,
    Thus you see how God punisheth sin in the same act, in the
    same part, in the same kinde. Time will not give me leave
    heer to shew you how many a man sleeps with Leah, with
    some ugly deformed sin, and being blinded in sin and darknesse,
    thinks it is Rachel, very beautifull and loves it entirely,
    till the morning light of Gods grace arise, and then
    he sees the deformity of his sin, how bleare eyed it is, how
    ill-favoured, and now let every man consider how we are all
    servants to God, and we serve him for Rachel, for some pleasant
    thing we delight in, as the Apostles dream't of a Kingdome,
    if it please God to give us Leah, in stead of Rachel, to
    give us that which pleaseth us not so well, let us be content
    with it and serve him on still, he will at the last give us Rachel,
    we shall be married to him in whom are all joys, such
    as eye hath not seen, nor eare heard, neither hath it entered
    into the heart of man to conceive. To which God of his mercy
    bring us: to God the Father, God the Sonne, and God
    the Holy Ghost be all honour, &c.
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